What's up Bulldogs! John Sonmez from Bulldog Mindset Here, where I teach you how to go from the Victim Mindset to the Bulldog Mindset.
Today's video is another request from of of you guys, initially I wasn't really interested in making a reply to this e-mail, but after going through it I realized that it's a subject that a lot of you guys struggle with! which is fitting with the "Popular cool kids" being part of that high social group. In this follower's who is in high school words it's being the cool kid in school and not be bullied.
But As I said there is more into it than just be the cool kid, it does have a balance between doing the right approach, making the right moves, coming of as needy or as an equal.
There are a lot of ways to prove your dominance, what most of people do is that they follow the leader, the "alpha" male (even though I really like using that term) and be his henchmen so they can be part of the cool kids club! or that high social circle, which to be honest isn't the best way to approach it.
You can set yourself as an equal footing the highest guys, bu proving your worth, standing up to them, acting as an equal or as an antagonistic to their act end so on... it might not be the easiest route to take, however, you will have your own value, and your own presence demands respect. Which is way different than being respected because of you're part of a certain social group.
I do understand how awesome it is, being part of the Popular cool kids in school and not being bully, however as I said, that's isn't all to it. And as my subscriber said, the best strategy he has in mind will gonna make him somewhat come of as needy, which i itself is a turn off to the people he want to be part of.
Let me answer some of the question you might have when is comes to why you can't be need, being the Popular cool kid at school, or joining that high social group that people what to be part of so badly and how to command your own respect...
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